What do men really like? The 8 secret sex fantasies of men

Do men really have secret fantasies and what do men really want? Are fantasies always so secret, or do women know what men want after all?

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by Bell Bennett

7 minutes read

What do men really like? The 8 secret sex fantasies of men

Woman says: "Men are an open book, you just have to be able to read them!". Unfortunately, it is sometimes not quite that easy. Yes, most of the time men are more direct and, unlike women, do not hide their actual feelings and wishes behind unclear formulations. Either they speak freely about what they want or they don't speak about it at all. That's why we're going to say it openly for all to hear. The secret desires and sex fantasies of men. What does a man want in bed? What does a man dream of? What kind of sex does he like best and with whom? And what do men like during sex?

1. The absolute evergreen: sex with two women!

Clearly, if "man" is already dreaming, then he wants to be completely spoiled and who can do that better than two women at the same time? The so-called threesome is the number one sex fantasy for over 84% of men. Of course, there is a wide range of fantasies here, from a threesome with two strange ladies, with one's own life partner and a stranger, or, what will probably often remain just one of the erotic fantasies, a threesome with two celebrities. About 75% of men even dream of having sex with 3 women or watching them sexually pleasure each other.

2. Sex in conspicuous places

Close behind watching 2 women have sex is having sex in a fancy place. There are many desires and erotic fantasies here. For some, it's the classic cliché of simply having sex in the kitchen on the kitchen table or counter. The office and the man's desk can also be very appealing to him. But most of the time, men's sexual fantasies are coupled with the allure of the forbidden or of "getting caught". For example, some men dream of making it with a woman in a public place, such as having sex in a hot tub, a pool, or even having sex in the sauna of a public swimming pool or spa. The toilets of an airplane, ship or train are also often a desirable place to do a quick number in public. Of course, there are still many dreams, but here it is really worth talking to your partner about these particular sexual preferences. Sex in nature is also part of these sex fantasies of men. So men also fantasise about sex in the forest, at the lake or at/in the sea. Secret sex on a park bench is also a big male fantasy.

Sex fantasies in secret places

3. Sex with a stranger

Almost ¾ of men dream of having sex with a strange woman. A strange woman can be a chance acquaintance in a bar, whom the man then takes to his place. It may also be that the man has a sex preference for venal women, such as with an escort with whom he can have easy and non-committal sex. But to reassure married women, most men's fantasies with strange women relate to prominent, unattainable women and thus remain, to the man's chagrin, an unfulfilled sex dream. But in order to still fulfil the sex partner's wishes here, you can try it with a role play and surprise the man with an unknown side. Men often learn a lot about women's sex fantasies during a role play. After all, 63% of men dream of watching a strange woman undress. Whether secretly or not, that is left to the sex fantasies of the men. Sex with a strange woman.

4. Watching others having sex

Whether real, in films or secretly, men like to watch. For some, a porn film, either professional or amateur, is enough to satisfy their sexual fantasies. The others like to watch in a swingers' club, or also likes to let others watch. But it's not just sex between couples that gets men really hot, 82% of men dream of watching two women pleasure each other and have sex together. In addition, many men also like to watch women doing it to themselves in their sex fantasies, whether with the help of toys or not.

Men have the secret sex fantasy of watching others having sex

5. BDSM and bondage

Slightly more than half of men (approx. 53%) dream of being tied up and dominated by the woman during sex. Of course, many men's fantasies do not just stop at being tied up with handcuffs on the bed, but they have sexual fantasies of being gagged or even chastised with various implements. 60% of men have the fantasy that they chastise and dominate the woman in bed and during sex.

6. Sex with a younger or more mature woman

For evolutionary reasons, humans strive for new things in the course of their lives. This is also true in the area of men's sex fantasies. Some men dream of having sex with a younger woman. Sometimes it is the thrill of showing someone something new, of teaching young women who are not yet experienced the world of sex, or even of being the first to introduce them to different sexual spheres. Especially for men in the "midlife crisis", the younger woman also inspires the man and he feels younger through her.  However, some, rather younger men, are also into MILFS. A MILF (eng. Mom I'd like to fuck) is a woman of middle age with whom one would like to have sex. This term is mostly used in films and porn and among teenagers and young adults. Often it is the mothers of friends, fellow students or even one's own partner with whom the man imagines erotic fantasies. The attraction here is precisely the experience of the more mature woman and the fact that some men think that women who are older than him are possibly more uninhibited or have a greater repertoire of sexual experiences.

Sex fantasies with older or younger women

7. Cum during sex

There are two processes involved here. The first is that many men want to ejaculate, or cum, on the body of their sexual partner, or for her to swallow his sperm.

The second point is that men want to watch, feel and sense when women cum. So-called squirting is a hotly debated topic in the sex world. In some countries, female effusion is even banned in porn films. Maybe that's exactly what men find so appealing, this unknown phenomenon about which there are still no clear scientific statements as to what exactly it is. All that can be said with certainty is that women who cum experience an uncanny sexual arousal and a very intense and pleasurable orgasm, which is probably very beneficial to the ego of their sexual partner. It is probably this very detail that satisfies men and makes them dream of having stimulated the woman so well that she not only has an orgasm but has got something far more sensual and arousing. 

8. Men often fantasise about surprises

Surprises can be multi-faceted. Some men want surprising and spontaneous sex at work or out of an unforeseen situation. Other men are happy about a surprise in the form of a new sex position or a new sex practice. Many men's fantasies relate to anal sex. Whether it is that she stimulates him anally and spoils him, or that he has anal sex with her.

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