Phone sex and webcam sex

Discover the world of phone sex and webcam sex: Learn what defines these forms of eroticism and how you can enjoy them

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by Bell Bennett

13 minutes read

Phone sex and webcam sex

Almost everyone knows the midnight commercials on various TV channels, but not everyone is open to phone and cam sex. There is not only the commercial side of satisfaction through remote communication. What exactly are the two types of sex? And what are the motivations of those people who satisfy their need for intimacy by means of the telephone and the Internet? We go into detail and explain the differences and similarities.

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What is phone sex?

Phone sex is one of several ways to satisfy one's sexual desires at a distance. Unfortunately, it is not possible to date when phone sex first occurred. However, based on the distance from one's life partner that was often observed in the past, it can be concluded that phone sex has been used privately for about 100 years. Whether someone likes to engage in phone sex is certainly dependent on his very personal preferences and morals. The fact that phone sex live has been playing an increasingly important role for almost a hundred years is proven by the etiquette columns published in newspapers in the 1920s. There, for example, verbal intimacy was discussed despite physical distance. Among other things, they dealt with whether a married woman was allowed to call her husband while she was lying on the bed naked or dressed only in lingerie. Fortunately, dealing with sex alternatives by phone or cell phone has become quite relaxed meanwhile, and hardly anyone has a problem with it today. After all, sex is one of the basic human needs – so why should a single person or a couple in a long-distance relationship have to do without it?

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What is camsex?

The term cam sex originated in the English language, but was adopted into the German vocabulary. Cam sex refers to another type of sex at a distance – namely sex by means of image transmission. At least on one side of the participants in cam sex is a camera (English camera, short cam). On the other side is a receiving device, usually in the form of a PC screen, laptop, tablet or cell phone. The camera is used to capture sexual prompts or reactions and transmit them to the receiver. Thanks to modern technology, cam sex often takes place with image transmission in both directions. There is definitely also the possibility of more than two people participating in a cam sex session. Logically, this form of long-distance sex has only been possible since the introduction or widespread use of the World Wide Web, around the mid-1980s. But even before the Internet age, couples used erotic photographs, drawings, and miniature paintings in postcard format to maintain erotic tension at a distance.

What phone sex and cam sex have in common

There are two different types of both sexy exchanges by phone and cam sex: the private form and the commercial form. As already touched upon, private cybersex varieties usually take place between two partners in a committed relationship. Exchanging hot fantasies can be a good way to maintain erotic tension over longer periods of time and distances. However, live phone sex and webcam sex also offer couples a delightful change from their relationship-typical sex life. After all, it can be extremely turn-on to have short hot flirtations by phone during the day. Here, people heat each other up verbally or with disreputable positions in order to roll around in the sheets in the evening or on the weekend. So an erotic tension is built up, to which the mental cinema contributes its part. At the next meeting, both can hardly hold back their lust and fall over each other. Sounds promising, doesn't it? Some people also like to use amateur cam sex or the phone to introduce their sexual preferences to their partner. It can enrich your love life enormously if you openly share your erotic fantasies with the person at your side. In a personal conversation, however, many people don't succeed in doing this because they are embarrassed by their desires in a certain way. The distance via cell phone or camera makes it much easier for them to open up sexually.

With the increasing sexual permissiveness, private phone sex or phone eroticism as well as private cam sex are also used to get to know each other better. Two people who met for the first time relatively recently can "sniff" each other out in this way. And they have the opportunity to discover each other's preferences without direct physical contact. For several years, another phenomenon has also been on the rise: Several strangers with similar sexual preferences arrange to meet online for a group video meeting. A kind of group sex then takes place there on a virtual or verbal basis. All of the aforementioned variants of private phone and cam sex have one thing in common: they do not cause any additional costs, apart from the usual telephone charges and/ or the Internet charges.

How do you define group sex? Commercial sex via technology, on the other hand, is always associated with a service fee. The large Internet sex offer is used both by singles and by people in fixed partnerships. The vast majority of users here are men of creation. The aim is usually to act out one's sexual desires. Either because the partner is not there at the moment or because the sex life is not fulfilling or one does not have a partner at the moment. Extreme situations, such as the pandemic of the last few years, have brought the industry enormous growth - and that, although phone sex and webcam sex are not cheap. Cheap phone sex starts as low as twelve cents a minute, here you can partly just listen to recorded erotic stories or phone sex. For camsex, the prices are on average from one to three euros, but they can also be € 4.99 and occasionally even higher. Girls who work at a phone sex hotline or a webcam sex chat are usually permanently employed by the corresponding service provider. This saves them the quite extensive acquisition costs for professional technical equipment. However, there are also companies where you don't get any real conversations or interactive pictures at all, but only a recording is played.

You've almost certainly seen ads for one of the countless cybersex providers more than once: via mass mailings, superimposed ads on websites, via SMS or on TV. Fast, anonymous sex is everywhere. Often, certain preferences are specifically triggered, for example, “nasty grannies,” “students with huge breasts,” or “rampant housewives.” Both 1:1 sessions and group sex are possible around the clock. From lascivious lolling on the bed to live masturbation, just about everything is offered here. Some girls also work in pairs and heat up the users with lesbian games.

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Woman engaging in phone sex

How does the payment work?

Some providers of phone sex or cam sex via Skype and Co. lure their customers with the promise of free sessions. However, these are almost always just so-called teasers, which are intended to make the gentlemen curious. Or it goes in free conversations and picture chats rather boring and the pace is extended so much that you lose the desire. Phone sex is partly paid afterwards via the phone bill at the end of the month. The network provider then forwards the corresponding fees to the phone sex operator. Or you book a prepaid credit, which you have to pay in advance. In this case, you are then given a specific phone number for sextalk and can use your credit to make calls. Webcam sex chat (also cam sex phone call) must always be paid first. On the homepages of the services, you can choose different packages, flat rates or a fixed number of minutes and pay them immediately via Paypal, Amazon voucher or credit card. Bank transfers are usually not possible, because the payment confirmation is not immediately available and thus the service is not activated. Online sex services of escort ladies play price-wise - if they are offered at all - in another league. 

Interesting facts

For about two decades, telephone network operators have been sued from time to time. The content of the following proceedings revolved around the question of whether or not telephone sex should be considered immoral. The plaintiffs claimed that network providers could earn a golden nose from the fees and drive customers to financial ruin. In the meantime, however, this issue is completely off the table, as a high court has ruled: Telephone charges are always announced to consumers before they use hotlines. There can therefore be no question of deception or questionable enrichment.

The advantages and disadvantages!

The biggest advantage of sex by cell phone or landline is probably the anonymity. Since the phone girl knows neither the face nor the real name of the customers, complications such as blackmail attempts are excluded. With phone sex by cell phone, it is on top of that possible to suppress one's number. Tracking is then no longer possible. For this, you have to rely solely on your imagination, since you yourself only know a picture of the lady at the other end in the best case. However, it is better not to rely on the fact that you are actually talking to the pictured woman.

The Internet offers customers of webcam sex only limited anonymity, since the IP address would theoretically be traceable. However, the providers hardly have an interest in this for understandable reasons. The great advantage of webcam sex with telephone is, of course, that in addition to the voice, the optical stimuli are not too short. How far a camgirl goes is always up to her, but naked breasts and sexy curves will always be seen.

Pros and cons of phone sex and webcam sex

What should you pay attention to?

How phone sex and webcam sex become a success is, of course, different from person to person. However, some important points can be noted. Here we share our tips with you so that your cybersex - especially private - will be a real pleasure!

  • You should get into the right mood beforehand. Relaxation is one of the most important factors for an erotic experience, otherwise the whole thing probably brings no fun and also rather rare satisfaction. But that's exactly what it's all about - in private cam sex sessions even for both. The thoughts of the last joint sex can be very helpful. Or the prospect of later realizing what you want to discuss or hint at with a sexy clip.

  • Do you have a good imagination? Great! The so-called head cinema contributes to successful phone sex absolutely. Even when having sex via video camera, you can let your imagination run ahead a bit. If you make hot phone calls with pictures, you can also enjoy the immediate reaction of your counterpart. The imagination knows almost no bounds for many people, which will definitely help them to have a fulfilling cybersex experience.

  • You and/or your partner should definitely have sex toys ready for the online date, including lubricants or massage oil. After all, it can happen that hot words, longing moans and even sexy looks and insights alone do not lead to the goal. Then it is good to have the orgasm helpers quickly at hand to be able to support yourself a little. By the way, this will certainly stimulate your partner additionally as well - a win-win situation. However, only if you don't have to go searching during sex talk.

  • A certain soundscape is simply part of good sex, isn't it? So in addition to the appropriate words, you should also make other sounds. Loud breathing or soft moaning express the increase in pleasure probably best, just as in live sexual intercourse. If you hold your breath with tension during phone sex, you will make your partner feel quite insecure and will hardly achieve the desired effect.

  • Timing is everything! Whether you want to meet or talk on the phone with your girlfriend or with a stranger online, the right timing is essential. Would you have thought that many men find it easier to climax together with their partner during phone or cam sex? This fact is an absolute pro argument for the mentioned sex variants. By the way, the reason for this is easily explained: If time and place are well coordinated, you can already imagine in your mind what's in store for you. The excitement in advance helps many women to come faster during sex on the phone or in front of the screen.

  • Anyone who wants to try cam sex, more often called Skype webcam sex, should of course have the necessary equipment. Modern laptops and tablets have a camera and screen, but the quality of the live images is often not the best. In addition, the screen of mobile devices is naturally very small, which can affect the visual experience. Therefore, connecting an additional mid-range webcam to the PC is the best solution for a successful sex chat.

Do not forget:

Cover your tracks! This is especially true if you have children in the house and they might use your computer. But you should also take appropriate precautions for web sex at work! Therefore, always delete your browsing history if you have been on a commercial provider site. For phone sex in the office, outdoors or at home, make sure that you are undisturbed and no one suddenly enters the room. Should you consider practicing webcam sex and co. in the car, please keep in mind that you might be observed during masturbation

Do escort ladies offer sex phone calls and sex-on-camera?

The activities of escorts usually do not revolve around cam sex and sex phone calls. Most clients would much rather meet the ladies anyway and spend a fun, cozy or erotic-filled evening. Mainly stressed business men are usually already constantly busy in their professional life on their cell phones or on the World Wide Web. These would then prefer to savor real encounters in their rare free time as a rule. Experienced escort ladies finally know how to bring the gentlemen to other thoughts. Nevertheless, some independent ladies occasionally make an exception, but mainly with your regular customers. For example, if they are already otherwise planned at the time requested, but do not want to disappoint the customer. In this way, you can avoid regular dates with particularly pleasant gentlemen being cancelled because they are looking for a colleague. However, this is the exception rather than the rule. But seriously: To savor the repertoire of the escort, to experience physical contact and the reactions of the sex partner up close - this can only be done in personal encounters. Come and enjoy our escort ladies in person!

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