How to pamper your clitoris properly

The most important information right from the start: the clitoral orgasm is much more frequent in women than the vaginal climax! So, it's time to take a closer look at this tiny but obviously essential sexual organ. Because very often the clitoris goes unnoticed during sexual intercourse, which in our opinion is really sad. Although the clitoris cannot be compared to the male glans in terms of size, the sensitivity of both organs is roughly similar. The clitoris owes its scientific nickname, the clitoral glans, to this characteristic. Countless nerve endings are concentrated here on just a few square millimetres — and that's exactly where you should start to get your partner off. If you want to pamper the clitoris extensively, there are not only several variations, but as a rule men also get their money's worth. The sight alone… However, licking, stroking and massaging needs to be learned, and you shouldn't just start blindly or even impetuously. If you want to give your lover unique highs and intense orgasms, this article is just right for you. Because here we explain what the tiny, highly sensitive pearl is really all about! What exactly is the clitoris, and where is it located? What is the best way to stimulate it, and how does your partner experience the following orgasm? Watch out, gentlemen — let's get started!

What is the clitoris?

The female vagina, also called the vulva, consists of several areas that all play a more or less important role during sex. In addition to the clitoris, around which (here) everything revolves, there are the labia minora and labia majora, as well as the vaginal opening. The location of the clitoris is at the upper end of the labia minora or inner labia. In a normal state, i.e., without physical arousal, it is largely covered by the surrounding skin. The clitoris itself is called by doctors the clitoral glans and this is almost completely covered by a foreskin, similar to the tip of a man's penis. Such a protective skin is also necessary because this sensitive area is covered with up to 8,000 nerves and sensory cells. Besides the clitoris, only the human fingertip is covered with a similar number of nerves. Of course, this explains why this mini organ has such a great influence on female pleasure. It is also clear why it actually brings women to orgasm more often than penetration of the vagina. 

The clitoris is a so-called erectile organ, which expands to about twice its size during sexual arousal and becomes relatively hard. By the way, a woman's entire vulva swells during foreplay and sexual intercourse. This is due to the increased blood supply. It is also important to know that every woman's clitoris is sensitive differently. Some can hardly stand being touched, especially at the beginning of the arousal phase, while others get totally off on playing around their clitoris. Every sensitive partner must approach the comfort level of their playmate step-by-step — in the truest sense of the word.

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What techniques are there for clitoral satisfaction?

As already mentioned, there are various ways to pamper the clitoris. The best way to find out which technique your partner prefers is simply to ask her. We present the five most commonly practised types of clitoral stimulation here:

Stroking

If you don't yet know exactly which type of play your woman prefers, stroking is a great place to start. However, you must always make sure that there is enough lubrication. If your lady is not yet aroused and therefore not wet enough, you should definitely use some lubricant or a suitable oil. For the latter, coconut oil is a good choice, for example. Your goal is to get the lady of your heart in the right mood by gently touching her clitoris. So, there is hardly any question of colloquial “fingering” here. You should also slowly approach the sensitive heart of the vulva and let your fingers glide lightly over the outer and inner labia a few times. This will probably already turn a woman on, which you can tell by the fact that she breathes faster and becomes moist. Now you can slowly circle your fingertip closer and closer around the clitoris and also run it over it very gently. Most women prefer a steady, slow movement that steadily raises the arousal curve. 

Hectic clitoral rubbing or very firm rubbing usually has the opposite effect and can even lead to the abrupt termination of your efforts. Therefore, take your time, experience the touch intensely and enjoy pleasuring your woman. When she is ready for other movements or more speed, she will certainly tell you or show you.

Licking

For many couples, oral sex is an integral part of their sexual life. No wonder, it is so nice and moist, gentle and warm to be pampered intimately by your partner's tongue and lips. But how do you approach this kind of stimulation? Well, cunnilingus (Latin for cunnus — female pubic area and lingua — tongue) is probably the gentlest way to stimulate the clitoris. Similar to stroking, however, you should not immediately play with the tongue on the clitoris, but first consider the surrounding area. Start by stroking your broad tongue slowly upwards from the lower end of the labia. You should be very gentle the first few times. After a few strokes, you can apply a little more pressure. If you're doing it right, your lady will certainly start to come towards you with her pelvis. This is a good sign that you can now concentrate on licking and kissing the clit. Here, too, you should keep calm and start by gently gliding over the pearl. As the tongue is also quite sensitive, you can certainly feel how your lady's clit swells and becomes firmer and firmer.

Don't stop now, but keep running your tongue over the object of pleasure with even movements. Hold your woman's pelvis tightly while you do this because when the orgasm comes over her in waves, her abdomen will twitch with pleasure. Incidentally, this is an unmistakable sign that you've done everything just right!

Massage

Women whose clits are less sensitive often really like it when their little sex organ is massaged properly. Even in the later stages of foreplay, when the clitoris is not quite as sensitive as it was before the arousal began, massages are a hot way to play. You can apply more pressure or use different speeds. After you have worked on the outer area of the vulva, you can also gently tug on the clitoris, for example. Just remember to always start gently and increase the pressure slowly. Maybe your partner will enjoy it if you simply place your thumb on the clitoris and then move it in circles and with more and more pressure. If you already know that your lady likes it a little harder with the love pearl, try the following: Pull back the clitoral hood to get better access to the clitoris. Then massage her clitoris between your thumb and index finger, alternating between soft and hard. Women who can only reach orgasm clitorally are particularly fond of more intense massages. Even if you are already in foreplay for the second round of sex, the clit massage can work wonders and even help your lover to multiple climaxes.

Sucking

Not only men enjoy it when their partner sucks on their penis with pleasure. Licking your girlfriend's clit is definitely a nice way to say thank you for fellatio. But have you ever tried sucking on her clitoris? You will surely be amazed at how hot you make your sweetheart!

Initially, you should arouse the clitoris by licking or stroking as usual. When you notice that your sweetheart is slowly heading for orgasm, simply switch to sucking. Proceed gently and at the same time firmly — and hold the lady tight. Because as soon as you start to play on her clit with the negative pressure you create with your mouth, she will probably take off. Keep at it, suck the little thing rhythmically between your lips, and then release it again. Another hot variation is to alternate between licking and sucking. First lure the clit out by sucking on it, then stroke it slowly and firmly with your tongue. Repeat this until your woman reaches orgasm. She will certainly be surprised at what a hot technique you suddenly have. And you will never again have to ask yourself, “How do I lick properly?”

Vibration

Vibrators are not only used frequently for masturbation. Why not? Whether sensitive or robust, short or long clitoris — almost all women love the vibration between their thighs. The even vibrations are also really exciting and unfortunately can neither be done nor compared manually or with the mouth. In addition to the vibration, you can vary the pressure and speed with the sex toy. Perfect for hot clit games. If you are confident in pampering your woman clitorally with the vibrator, just get started. Basically, the same principle applies as with all other techniques. You will know undoubtedly whether the lady of your heart feels pleasure during your teasing clitoral games. When the vagina becomes moist, the clitoris swells and hardens, you will automatically know that you are on the right track. And if in doubt, just ask the lady how you can best give it to her. She will certainly be happy about the special attention and willingly give you information.

Perhaps it would be particularly exciting for both of you if you asked your sweetheart to pamper her clitoris herself with the buzzing massage wand! In that case, you'll have perfect instructions for the next time. Plus, we're pretty sure you'll get just as much pleasure from watching as she will from the lusty massage.

See? It's really not difficult to lick the clitoris properly or to arouse it in any other way. The first step is always the trickiest, so don't hesitate and implement one of our tips today. Your sweetheart is guaranteed to be thrilled!

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