Pure escort service: No sex on an escort date?

Discover how escort dates can work without sex and learn how to set boundaries for a pleasant and safe companionship experience


by Bell Bennett

6 minutes read

Pure escort service: No sex on an escort date?

Erotic escorting does not only take place in the hotel room. There are clients who want to invite a beautiful woman to the spa, to a football match or for a walk. How is intimacy handled in this type of escort service? Is there a possibility to offer the escort service without sex? And how does the sensual aspect of the booking work when you have a date in public? We answer all the burning questions on the subject. How does an escort date work?

Escort service: This is what an escort date without sex can look like

An escort lady is a modern courtesan, a temporary mistress. The arrangement is not exclusively about the erotic aspects, but about the closeness and intimacy of a familiar relationship. When you take up the job as an escort, you will not just visit the gentleman briefly in the hotel suite. You may spend several hours at his side - in the hotel room, but also in the wild. It often happens that an escort is booked for a date in public.
The classic escort service for events or functions is rarely requested. It is more about an "alibi girlfriend" who stands by one's side and chats charmingly with acquaintances, colleagues and business partners. In these requests, the erotic aspect is in the background.
As an escort agency, we experience it much more frequently that a client wants a companion for a nice activity and a private time in the hotel room afterwards. Perhaps he doesn't want to attend a concert alone or has got hold of two tickets for a football match. Or he might want to spend a wellness day at the spa and then treat himself to an erotic extra.

The question of all questions: If you are booked for an escort date in public, do you have to become intimate with the client?

Sex in public as an escort: Is that allowed?

Some men (and women!) find it very exciting to have sex in public. However, it is forbidden! Whether in the spa, outdoors or in the guest toilet at the football stadium: sexual acts in public are a misdemeanour. And that can get you into real trouble.

Many gentlemen think nothing of it when they invite an escort lady to the spa. They even book a VIP lounge in addition to the entrance fee and think that they can have wild sex here. But beware: these suites are often only separated from the public area by a curtain. Not only can you see everything your neighbour is doing, you can also hear it. If you are caught having sex here, it is not only embarrassing and unpleasant, but often results in a house ban.

In some spas, for example Therme Erding, there are separate small cabins or rooms that you can book for an extra charge of about 200 euros per day. Our tip: Check the small print beforehand to see what is allowed! And if it's a bit too hot for you, you can put the client off until later.

As an escort lady, you should also refuse to have sex in the great outdoors, in the forest or in a car park. Outdoor sex and car meetings are not part of the daily work of a reputable agency. These services are often only offered by pocket money ladies who are short of money. In addition to the legal issue, the safety aspect plays an important role. It is not a good idea to have sex alone with a strange man deep in the forest.

Everything about your security on a date

Saying no: the most important skill for escorts

It is difficult, especially for younger women, to refuse a client's demands and ideas. This is a skill that an escort definitely needs to learn. Otherwise, you may be persuaded to do something you don't even want.

Sex in public is forbidden. But it is much more important that nothing happens that you do not want.

It is not an option to be pushed by the client. A clear no must be respected. In practice, it works well to give alternatives: Isn't it much nicer to be relaxed and intimate in a clean hotel room instead of in a public toilet? When it comes to the thrill of sex in public, there are appropriate spaces for it, for example in a couples' club or at a swingers' party. If you work with an escort agency, they will find a solution in conflict situations. You can call the agency at any time and ask for help. We have already experienced that the lady does not dare to call the agency before the client. In this case, we are on call via SMS during a date. Alternatively, the agency calls the client directly and asks if everything is okay. So you don't have to worry about your safety as an escort. To avoid this problem, you should discuss and clarify everything with the client in advance. This way, no misunderstandings can arise and all parties involved go into the date with the same expectations.

Saying no is important as an escort

Escort at eye level: escort service with and without

As an escort lady you have control over when and where the sex takes place. If you don't want it, there will be no sex. You should use this power if you feel uncomfortable.

However, if you want to completely give up the erotic aspect of the job, the job at an escort service is probably not the right way for you. Because there are rarely clients who request a pure escort service without sex. A touch of eroticism is part of the job.

No master has fallen from the sky yet. With time you will develop the necessary self-confidence to master such situations charmingly and self-determinedly. Escort dates are meetings at eye level. Mutual respect is the key to a successful encounter.

If you are now even more interested in working as an escort and earning money, please contact us! We will accompany you on your way and help you to become a successful, confident escort lady.

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