What excuses women make for not having sex, but why?

Sex is probably the most beautiful secondary thing in the world! Surely, you will agree with us 100 per cent (as will most men). Women, on the other hand, are more often reluctant to have sex and often try to avoid it for an evening with excuses. But why is that actually the case? Why do women often use creative and sometimes unusual excuses instead of simply telling the truth? Basically, the male world can feel flattered here because women often use excuses (sex) to avoid hurting their partner's feelings. The problem of a woman's unwillingness to have sex rarely has anything to do with her partner. Nevertheless, men naturally want to know — here are the most common excuses for men. 

The excuses are becoming more and more creative

Of course, it does happen in relationships that you simply don't feel like having sex. However, as you may know from your own experience, this is much more often the case with women than with men. Stress, hormonal fluctuations, or simply a quarrel in the relationship are enough here to kill the libido. Although women use it more often than men, both sexes like to resort to an excuse when they feel reluctant to have sex. Fatigue as the main reason has replaced the famous headache in recent years and is therefore at the top of the list of excuses for both men and women. But there are basically no limits to creativity here. Besides the boring standard excuses, there are now some very bizarre excuses that you may (hopefully) not have heard of:

Women's common sex excuses

When women don't want sex, they like to invent excuses for men. This tactic is very popular, as can be seen from the large number of articles on this topic that can be found on the internet. Often the excuses are always similar, which takes away their credibility and also makes them look a little ridiculous. Here are the standard excuses of a woman:

• I'm tired: The woman who was just full of energy is suddenly overcome by a wave of tiredness.
• I have a headache: This excuse is outdated mainly because it is now known that sex is a wonderful remedy for headaches due to its circulation-enhancing properties.

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• I have to get up early: As if that little bit of sex would make a big difference. It's much easier to fall asleep after, isn't it?
• I have my period: That's a reason to give up sex, of course, but some women actually seem to have their periods permanently…
• I feel sick: Strange that she wasn't too sick for girls' night out, the phone call with her mother and other things. Sudden sickness or weakness as soon as sex is involved rather suggests unwillingness, comfort, or something else.
• I just want to cuddle: Closeness in a relationship is nice, but it should not be limited exclusively to cuddling.
• What if the kids hear us?: The children are in their beds sleeping. Just because a couple has children, their sex life should definitely not be over for at least 18 years.

Men's common sex excuses

Physical reasons are rather rare in men. Therefore, when men are not in the mood for sex, it's mostly mental. Stress or something that keeps him busy can quickly lead to a lack of desire. So, when he doesn't want sex, the excuses for girlfriend or wife are often not excuses but actually an explanation. But why do some men not want sex? They actually answer that truthfully:

• I am tired
• My day was stressful
• I have eaten too much
• The boys will be here soon
• I can't go out when there are guests in the house

With men, therefore, everything has to be just right. Not surprising! — When you're dealing with a problem, it's not easy to just switch to eroticism, is it? 
So, it's perfectly normal to have no desire for your partner from time to time. However, as a rule, this lack of desire hardly ever happens with men. If you do need an excuse, the most common cause is usually a relationship that has fallen asleep. Are you longing for something else? For an exciting and fresh experience? Maybe we can help you with that… 

When excuses become a problem

Creative and unusual sex excuses

But first, let's continue with the text: Excuses for sex don't always have to follow a standard. Sometimes they are really creative and also a little strange. If your partner uses strange excuses, something may be wrong in the relationship. However, we understand: women who don't want sex? — That really turns you off, especially in the long run. Moreover, the more often the excuses come, the more likely the woman is to signal that she really doesn't want you at all. Would you like to know when it's time again? Not the best excuses in the world, but some creative ones are as follows:

• It's so itchy down there: Such an excuse is actually often recommended. Of course, it turns men off, but at the same time you wonder where the alleged illness might come from. Especially if you yourself don't have an itch.
• My horoscope says I should not have sex today:** The woman who says something like that either doesn't believe it herself or she's a bit… let's say crazy.

• I am very fertile today: Fertility in a serious relationship is usually something beautiful, at least if you have a desire to have children. If this desire does not exist, it is natural to use contraception. Since this excuse is obviously meant to take away your desire, it's almost like a slap in the face. In any case, there are plenty of contraceptives.
• I was just thinking of something sad: Going down the emotional route is of course clever because a crying woman is anything but sexy. If your wife is often sad, she should perhaps seek professional help. Don't let her sink into depression. By the way, you can mention at this point that sex can help against depression… 
• Sex is not good for food: A myth that is, of course, completely untrue. There is a persistent rumour that sex causes food to spoil quickly. Anyone who believes such a thing is really beyond help.

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Enough of sex excuses

“I don't want a sex excuse”, this statement reflects the emotional world of many men. Of course, you love and respect your partner with all your heart, but sometimes it just becomes too much. Constant excuses from your partner weigh on your mind. Too tired for sex, I don't like sex now, no sex and other excuses for men eventually lead to you running out of desire as well. At least as far as lust for your partner is concerned. You're just tired of sex excuses? Perfectly legitimate because, after all, men have feelings and needs too. If your partner neglects them and doesn't respond to them, then where is the point of the relationship? Of course, relationships are not purely sexual, nor are they based exclusively on time in the bedroom. But (F)act is: sex is an important point that simply belongs to being together. Statements like “I don't want sex” are therefore the number one relationship killer. We have the right solution for problems of this kind: BB Escort offers a good alternative to this wasteland in the relationship. Have you ever thought about choosing an escort lady? There is no tiredness and no headaches there. Instead of recurring excuses, you have one hot adventure after the next to look forward to. Instead of unwillingness, there is pure eroticism here. Our ladies are free of any emotional outbursts and are also wide awake, no matter when you need them.

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