Good sex with a small penis - information and tips for a fulfilled love life

Men with a relatively short or thin penis often suffer enormously. In our society, anything that doesn't conform to the norm is almost automatically considered unnatural or abnormal. In addition, there are almost countless stupid jokes and comments about men with small dicks, which are part of the daily routine in sports and at the regulars' table. If you are one of those men with a smaller penis, don't let this put you off. You will find some important information and tips here. Hopefully, these will help you to see yourself and your (supposed) “problem” in a different light.

Is my penis really too small?

A study with 15,500 men caused a stir in spring 2015.  The facts contradict what many men claim about themselves and their best piece. The much praised 20 cm, which are already praised in various hit songs, are an absolute exception and do not correspond to the norm at all. According to researchers at the British Journal of International Urology, the average penis is 9.16 cm long in its normal form, and measures exactly 13.12 cm when it is erect. Dr. David Vale, the lead researcher of this study, hopes that this publication will remove many men's worries. Because, Vale continues, the assumption that one's own member is too short, too crooked or too thin is massively fuelled by misinformation on the internet as well as porn. “Because the range of what is considered normal goes from 7.5 to 19 centimetres at rest — whereby there are significantly more 7.5s than 19s,” says Prof. Dr. Sabine Kliesch. With a normal distribution, half of all men inevitably have a smaller penis than the average. Even values below the 9.16 average centimetres are completely normal and in no way cause for concern.

 In fact, only about two percent of men have an unusually small or large penis. If we stick to the average, this means that only about one per cent of men have particularly small penises and another one per cent have particularly large genitals.

How does a micropenis develop and how can it be identified early on?

The cause of a very narrow or short penis can already be found in prenatal development. And developmental disorders, such as hypothalamic or pituitary dysfunction, are also responsible for small penises in the postnatal period. As a result, the testicles are not sufficiently stimulated and the lack of testosterone production then leads to sex organs that are not normally formed. In very small men, the penis and testicles are logically smaller than in average-sized men. Since micropenises are usually inherited, they can be diagnosed at an early stage. In that case, injections with the hormone testosterone can promote development. It is important to know: Such therapy must always be carried out in childhood or adolescence. Once puberty and the growth phase have ended, it is no longer possible to change the size of the limb without surgery. By the way, we only really speak of a micropenis when it is around five centimetres long. So in most cases, a penis that is too short is more of a subjective impression.

How does sex with a small penis feel for both partners?

As with everything to do with sex, opinions differ about micropenises.

There are women who say obviously that sex with a small dick is unimaginable for them. And there are ladies who have had long-term relationships with men who have only a few centimetres in their pants.

The women are often amazed at how well their partner can handle his mini-penis and knows exactly how to fully satisfy his sweetheart.

In general, mostly men are concerned about the small size of their dick. For this, they often develop imaginative alternatives, especially in the field of oral sex.

Of course, this is just as much fun for men, and there are also some positions in which the woman is particularly tight so that both partners get their money's worth. At this point, we would also like to mention that a large penis is more likely to cause problems during sex and thus also in partnerships than a very small member.

Women whose husbands have a micropenis mostly say that he puts a lot of effort into satisfying them and that they don't miss anything - on the opposite! The important thing is that both partners trust each other, deal openly with the subject and are not too dogged when it comes to sex. By the way: The best average cock is absolutely no good if a man can't handle it! In some circumstances and in certain sex positions, size is important - but without technique and sensitivity, even a normal penis will hardly satisfy a woman.

Best sex positions for a small penis

Now you've already got a lot of expert information and probably realized that you shouldn't worry too much about your small penis. So, now let's move on to the best sex tips for an enjoyable love life. If you have a tiny penis, you should eliminate certain sex positions from your repertoire. In the spooning position or standing sex, for example, it is hardly possible to stimulate your partner to orgasm even with a 12 cm long cock.

In contrast, affected couples describe the missionary position, the doggy style and the riding position as particularly pleasurable and intense. These positions allow you to penetrate particularly deeply and are equally enjoyable for you and your partner.

You should also not be shy with alternatives. For one thing, the erogenous zones are by no means limited to a woman's vagina. The neck and ears, the inner thighs, breasts, and bottom are also very sensitive to touch. You can stimulate your partner's erection enormously with massages, stroking, nibbling, and kissing. In addition, many men with small penises report their skills in oral sex, which makes the ladies most delighted and willing. In addition, you have two healthy hands and are also allowed to use a sex toy. Everything is allowed that you both enjoy.

By the way, many women — and also men who call themselves good lovers — say that an extended, varied foreplay makes more of a difference than the actual act. Last but not least, anal intercourse gives you a real advantage because many women worry that it might be too painful when an averagely hung man penetrates their anus. With a penis ring, you can also make sure that your erection is a bit plumper and that the penis stays stiff longer. This tool has also proved very popular with many men.

Practice makes perfect

What can you do about a small penis?

No matter what promising advertisements you read in magazines or on the internet, the fact is: as soon as a man is fully grown, he can no longer enlarge his penis naturally. Even penis pumps, powders, and tinctures do not change these medical facts. In cases where men really suffer a lot from their micropenis, and it puts a lot of psychological strain on them, surgery is sometimes advised. Although surgery can be performed on an outpatient basis and is not particularly complex, the advantages and disadvantages of surgery should always be thoroughly discussed. Depending on the original length, cutting the retaining ligament can lengthen the penis by two to four centimetres. It is also possible to increase the circumference of the penis by inserting the patient's own fat, for example from the thigh. All this sounds a bit scary, doesn't it? Just think carefully about whether you really want to take such a step. If you don't have a fulfilling sex life, it's often because you haven't found the right partner yet. During our research, we came across several interviews in which men with micropenises have been happily married for years. And their partners were very satisfied with the sexual prowess of their husbands.

Can I have escort dates as a small fitted man?

So, please, why shouldn't that be possible? Every man is different, of course this also applies to escort ladies! It will rather be the case that an escort can impressively show you how lustful you can make your sex life. Extremely thin or short penis or not, the secret of hot sex is to switch off your head! A nice escort lady can definitely help you with that. If you simply go with the flow and expand the “trimmings” a little, various sex positions are extremely enjoyable for both sides, even with a small penis. Just try it out, you will be surprised!

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