The ultimate sex bucket list: 69 ideas for escorts
Everyone has them, those ideas in their head that they want to do before it's too late. This includes a sex bucket list. But what belongs on it?
by Bell Bennett
14 minutes read
Sex and eroticism are your passion - otherwise you wouldn't be interested in a life as an escort lady. Whether you're new to the business or already experienced, inspiration is sure to come in handy. We've collected 69 sensual, exciting and thrilling ideas for your personal sex to-do list. Probably not everything will tickle your fancy - but some items might be on the erotic menu for your next date.
To-do list for the bedroom: does it even make sense?
Doubting contemporaries might argue that you don't need a to-do list for sex. Sex is not something you plan - the best things happen spontaneously. And that's true! On the other hand, variety is the spice of life: always the same three positions and five sex practices get boring in the long run. As an escort lady, it makes sense to have a treasure chest of ideas up your sleeve. Some gentlemen are shy or insecure. They want to experience an adventure, but don't even know what is sexually possible. A daring escort by their side can bring a breath of fresh air into their love life and inspire them to try new things in bed. Also for you as an escort it can be worthwhile to keep a sex list of hopes, ideas and fantasies. You will learn a lot about yourself and your body, find out personal preferences and can formulate more clearly where your limits and no-go's lie. So why not?
Sex experiences that everyone should have had at least once
The perfect spoon list: What belongs on it? In the first category we deal with things that broaden your personal horizon of experience. Eroticism and closeness are not only basic human needs, but also set the stage for your personal development. These sex experiences can point the way to what practices turn you on. A sex bucket list doesn't come in one size fits all: you may find some thoughts unsexy and have no interest in these fantasies. That's perfectly fine! Choose the inspirations that suit you and your desire. And then have fun ticking them off...
to-do list in a woman's life
- Tantra massage: A yoni massage gently and mindfully caresses you to climax - and gets the sexual energy inside you flowing.
- Accepting sex for money: It feels fantastic to receive a generous fee for erotic services.
- Try out orgasm types: Many paths lead to the summit. Get to know your body better on a sensual journey of discovery!
- Be queen of the night: This night is yours! Dance like no one is watching you and have every drink bought for you at the bar.
- Squirting: Female ejaculation is visually impressive and is accompanied by a bombastic orgasm. The important thing is to let go and enjoy.
- Dirty Sex: It gets dirty, baby! Sex isn't always squeaky clean. Play with body fluids and live out your animal side!
- Anal and vaginal: We women are blessed with multiple orifices that bring us pleasure. You can enjoy them simultaneously or independently.
- Sex in the water: Wet and happy splashing around in the tub or weightless sex in the floods? You decide!
- Lovey-dovey sex: One of the sex experiences that everyone should have had is definitely sensual cuddle sex with lots of eye contact.
- Threesome, foursome, group sex: One of the most common sex fantasies is the threesome. Do you want to pleasure a man with another woman or be spoiled by two men?
- Dominant and submissive fantasies: The game of power and submission appeals to many people. Maybe you too? You should at least try it out - in both roles.
- Shoot (private) porn: You don't have to publish your sex tape. But check out how hot you look during sex!
- Dirty talk and phone sex: Sex without physical contact can be tingling - not only in long-distance relationships.
- Be selfish: Sex can simply be about you. Sit back and let yourself be served!
Hot sex practices: List for the curious and advanced
There is no comprehensive list of sex practices that you can simply tick off.
Sex is an individual affair, a finely tuned dance between the two (or three, or four) parties involved.
This list of sex practices expands your repertoire of techniques and tricks to make booking a hotel even more exciting.
11 sex practices that will turn your and his heads
- Karezza and Slow Sex: Lingering slowly in each other makes for palpitations and an intimate connection.
- Prostate massage: The "male G-spot" can trigger an orgasmic firework - if he dares.
- Bondage: Being tied up with ropes and scarves restricts freedom of movement and is the perfect basis for power games.
- Sloppy Blowjob: Wild, hungry and with lots of spit, this oral sex variation appeals to animalistic charms.
- Pegging: Role reversal with strap-on turns your usual dynamic on its head and is ideal if you want to try something new in bed.
- Cleopatra's grip (pompoir): By tensing the vaginal muscles, you massage the penis to climax.
- Edging: Over and over again you lead him to the brink of madness - until a huge wave of pleasure builds up.
- Rimjob: Tongue play appeals to the sensitive nerve pathways around the buttocks and is found to be very pleasant by all sexes.
- Impact Play: Slaps and pats on the buttocks activate the pleasure centre in the head and provide sweet pleasure pain.
- Role play: With a different role, you break out of everyday life and can more easily let yourself fall into fantasy.
- G-spot massage: With practised fingers, your lover feels the perfect spot that catapults you to the peak of pleasure.
Sextoys: Little helpers for the best sex of your life
In the handbag of an escort lady there are some toys that make life more beautiful.
With sex toys you support and complement the love play in many ways.
11 sex toys for every life and love situation
- Feathers and fur: ticklish accessories for sensory play
- G-spot vibrator: The angled head makes it easier to reach the pleasure centre in the vagina than any finger.
- Pressure wave vibrator: The ultimate in orgasm technology stimulates the clitoris with gentle air waves.
- Sex toy with remote control: Ideal for discreet play in public - for example at date night in a restaurant.
- Love balls: Pelvic floor training and sex toy in one. Wearing them makes the muscles in the lower body stronger.
- Anal toys: Both sexes have erogenous zones in the buttocks. A prostate vibrator or anal plug provide fullness and stimulation.
- Penis ring: A cock ring helps when the best part doesn't cooperate and makes strong what would otherwise remain flaccid.
- Sex costumes: A sexy outfit supports the mental cinema during role play and awakens new kinks and desires.
- Clit pump: Big clit = big fun. Negative pressure makes your pleasure centre bigger and more sensitive.
- Sybian: The Rolls Royce of sex toys is a sinfully expensive sex machine. You sit on it and start a wild ride that really appeals to all erogenous zones.
- Sex cushions and sex furniture: These accessories ensure the perfect entry angle and make strenuous sex positions more comfortable.
Unusual sex positions you have to try out
You don't have to be an Olympic acrobat in bed - but a little variety between missionary and doggy style can't hurt.
All sex positions can be creatively modified and designed to make you stand on your head with pleasure.
11 sex positions that are worth a second look
- Reverse cowgirl: In this rodeo, you sit on your lover facing his feet. This allows for deep penetration and more freedom of movement.
- CAT position: The Coital Alignment Technique is based on the female anatomy where the man slides further up during sex and rubs his pubic bone against the clitoris.
- Kamasutra positions: In the ancient book of the art of love, more than 200 sex positions await adventurous couples, such as the "flying white tiger" or the "Chinese sleigh ride".
- Sex standing up: Exhausting, but worthwhile. Standing sex is possible anytime and anywhere - even in public.
- Position 77: This variation of the cuddly spoon position allows deep thrusts by bending the legs.
- Spanish sex: Sex between the breasts is a hot reward for the gentlemen who like women with large breasts.
- Sex sitting down: All you need is a chair or a comfortable surface to indulge in the pleasure - perfect for escort dates!
- Sex on the desk: The height difference on the desk allows for creative new positions and intense body contact.
- Lotus position: This sex position is like an embrace and is perfect if the guest wants girlfriend eroticism.
- Italian sex: The penis is rubbed between the armpit and the upper body, allowing satisfaction without penetration.
- Oral sex in 69: No list of sixty-nine entries is complete without the sex position 69. During mutual oral sex, it becomes difficult to concentrate on your own task.
The best (and most exciting) places for sex
Always in a hotel bed is boring! Many gentlemen dream of having new experiences off the beaten track. And maybe you're drawn out into the world to have sex where no one has ever had sex before. But be careful: Don't get caught, because not everything is legal, much of it is forbidden and is also prosecuted with high penalties!
11 ideas for adventurous escorts and gentlemen
- Going out frivolously: Not a dedicated sex venue, but a way to show off your finest dresses and shortest skirts. What if someone sees you're not wearing anything underneath? Oops...
- Swingerclub: The classic sex venue. Here, open-minded singles and couples meet for non-binding encounters on the playground.
- Sex in the spa area: it's best to have sex in the bubbling whirlpool or in the semi-darkness of the sauna. Sex and wellness go together like massage and relaxation room.
- Mile High Club: Above the clouds, freedom must be boundless. Sex on a plane is one of the most common sex fantasies.
- Nudism in nature: In the forest, in the park or on the hotel balcony - outdoors, the bees and flowers can still learn something from you.
- Dogging: Anonymous car park sex can be an exciting thrill if you have a voyeuristic or exhibitionist bent.
- Sex in the car: You have a bit more privacy in the back seat than in the car park. You have to be very flexible for that.
- Sex at work: Maybe a guest calls you into the office during the lunch break. Definitely less stressful than an affair among colleagues.
- Darkness: It can be delightful when you have to rely on your other senses. Touch, hear, smell, taste...
- Luxury hotel: What could be more beautiful than indulging in luxury? This dream comes true as an escort with guarantee.
- Sex by and in the sea: The rushing surf on your naked skin awakens longings. Weightless sex in the water should not be missing from any sex bucket list.
Crazy ideas and fetishes when you want to try something new
If you want to do crazy things during sex, you are exactly right in this category.
The world of kinks and fetishes revolves around sexual preferences that do not correspond to mass taste.
Many fantasies revolve around lacquer, leather and latex, around role play or the game of power and devotion.
No matter whether you are dominant or submissive: As an escort lady you will always find a suitable playmate.
11 fetishes and kinks you definitely didn't know yet
- Sperm games and bukkake: The white gold on naked skin has a powerful attraction. The more, the better: some like it dirty.
- Cleaning naked (let): There are submissive people who want to crawl in the dust in front of their mistress - literally. Both sides get something out of wining and jerking.
- CMNF (Clothed Male, Naked Female): A clothed man in a smart suit dominates a naked woman. In hardly any other kink is the power imbalance more visible.
- Praise Kink: "Good Girl!" You're into compliments? Erotically whispered praise and adoration makes men and women weak.
- Tease and Denial: A heavenly torment when you hold the reins. You decide when he can come - and if.
- Ruined orgasm: Once the point of no return is reached, you break off and watch his well-deserved climax turn into a pipe burst.
- Findom: Some men want to be dominated with every fibre of their being - even in financial matters. Financial Domination makes him your personal piggy bank.
- Erotic hypnosis: Immersed in an erotic trance, the mind is open to suggestions and dream journeys that you can specifically control.
- Electrosex: It tingles and tingles when electricity flows through your most sensitive body parts. Goosebumps guaranteed!
- Waxplay: Hot wax drips onto even hotter skin. This game is painful but aesthetically pleasing and a feast for BDSM lovers.
- Facesitting: You take a seat on his face and let yourself be pampered. Some men are doubly breathless when they are allowed to serve as a throne.
Sex bucket list for escorts: What do YOU want to experience?
The job as an escort is just perfect to make your fantasies come true. For one thing, you simply have many more sexual encounters than the average woman. You get to know more people and get the chance to dive into erotic worlds that would otherwise have remained unknown to you. Guests book a date with you to fulfil their desires. One or the other man will certainly want to tick off sex with an escort for his list of things to do. On the other hand, there is your desire: You don't have to coordinate with a steady partner and take his or her personal reservations into account. If you don't have a chance to fulfil your fantasy with one guest, it's guaranteed to work out with another.
At the end there is one big question: What do you want to experience? As an escort you have the chance to live out your erotic side in all facets. If this sounds attractive to you, we will gladly help you to realise it.
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