Summer passion: The best places and tips for outdoor
Experience exciting outdoor sex! From the balcony to the park, discover the thrill of summer and invigorate your love life with fresh ideas
by Bell Bennett
7 minutes read
The days are getting longer, the nights warmer and the clothes less — Yes, summer is just around the corner. Have you perhaps already seen a spot in nature and thought of something naughty? Then you're not alone because outdoor sex is a great thing.
Why you should definitely try outdoor sex
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A tickling blade of grass or a fresh breeze on your bare skin will give you goosebumps. Meanwhile, being touched by your loved one catapults your feelings even higher.
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In the past, you also played with friends on the field. The games are no longer the same, but maybe the field is!
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Instead of listening to the annoying neighbours vacuuming, the chirping of birds, the murmur of water or the crackling of the trees beckon outdoors.
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Sex thrives on variety and adventure. With spontaneous outdoor sex, you literally bring a breath of fresh air into your love life.
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Remember the thrill of your first time having sex or your first masturbation? The fear of getting caught? You can refresh that feeling by playing sex games outside.
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Sex games with ice cubes, water, or chocolate usually lead to a massive mess at home. However, if you choose to have sex outside, that's not a problem. Only industrial waste must be taken away, of course. Chocolate stains or puddles of water (or other liquids) may stay put.
We present our top three options for sex outdoors!
Sex on the balcony
For an outdoor sex beginner, the balcony is a good place to start. Depending on the size of the balcony, you can, of course, try different things. In general, the following points apply:
- Hard ground hurts — the cushions of garden furniture or an air mattress will make the balcony more comfortable for your adventure.
- Early morning, midday, evening, or night — generally there is no time window for sex on the balcony. However, to be as undisturbed as possible, you should focus on early morning, evening, and night.
- It better to be as quiet as possible. No matter how close you come to orgasm, loud moaning is rather inappropriate and may attract a spectator or two to the window.
- You can build a reinforced privacy screen with a sun sail/umbrella or blankets.
On your balcony, you can basically try out all positions that you enjoy. However, while it may sound appealing to sit on the railing, it is far too dangerous. Besides, any position where you are both on the floor is better protected from view. These include missionary position, spooning or 69, but doggy style or standing from behind can also be exciting. Of course, you can integrate your balcony furniture into the sex game: A cowgirl on the sun lounger or sex on the table — there are no limits for you.
Sex in the garden
A step further towards sex in nature represents sex in the garden. Go out today and take a look at your garden from an erotic perspective. Where is it most comfortable? Is there somewhere good to hide? Which surface feels best on your skin? How could the garden furniture be integrated into the adventure?
You'll quickly find that you suddenly perceive some corners of your garden quite differently!
If it weren't for the neighbours…
Of course, you should perform your garden adventure, as well as all other outdoor sex activities, discreetly. This includes, for example, not bursting into loud moans even during the most intense orgasm. To avoid unwanted observers, it also helps to consider the time of day. Saturday afternoon, when everyone is enjoying the sun and the children are swinging on the swing, is therefore rather an unsuitable time.
In addition, it is important to note: After making love in the garden, check for unwanted insects. Ticks in particular like to take advantage of the opportunity and jump up quickly. However, the mutual examination, for example in the bathroom, can be used directly for a second round. After all, every body fold and opening must be examined for the little critters.
The hottest tips for good garden sex:
- A tent
With a tent, you have privacy, insect protection and camping feeling in one. There are also more options for padding available to you here.
- Sex toys
You may also offer your sex toys a trip outdoors. No matter if dildo, handcuffs, or vibrators — use everything you have. With the tent, you can start an insanely intimate sex experience. The little light, the silence and the fresh air create a very erotic atmosphere.
- Alternative sex toys
Do you have a swing in your backyard? Excellent! Have you already had sex on a swing? No? Then let's do it! Of course, other things in the garden can be used for your lovemaking: Walls, tables, chairs, sun lounger, … Let your imagination run wild!
Sex in the water
The cool wet attracts everyone in the summer. Whether bathtub, outdoor pool, lake, or sea — the main thing is cool and wet. The advantage is that both women and men have very little on.
But be careful: don't forget contraception! Sea salt and chlorine can attack the latex of condoms. So, the protection is only limited. In addition, the water washes away the moisture of the woman. So, it is not so easy to penetrate the vagina. Neither chlorine nor the bacteria in natural waters are very healthy for the inner mucous membranes. Therefore, after having fun in the water, you should flush your urinary tract — in short, you should urinate after sex.
But now to the beautiful sides of sex in water:
Thanks to the higher density of water, you consume more energy — so you burn more fat. Moreover, everyone knows the lightness in water. This is not only good for ligaments and tendons, but also makes one or the other position easier. Accordingly, you can lift your partner a bit without effort or hold your legs at your hips. In general, the possible sex positions are limited to the fact that the heads of both must remain above water. From the front or behind — fast or slow — completely naked or just past the bikini panties — try yourself.
More ideas for your outdoor adventure
Of course, the possibilities for outdoor sex are not exhausted with sex on the balcony, in the garden and in the water.
Sex on the beach
You are on holiday at the beach. The partner has only the bare necessities on, the sweat beads on the bare skin and all the curves of the body are clearly visible. In the background the sound of the sea, the nice warm sandy ground — who doesn't get one or two naughty thoughts?
Sex in the park
The most beautiful flowers, birds chirping and beautifully manicured greenery around you. You can take advantage of a sheltered spot to have a picnic first and then snack on your partner right after.
Sex in the forest
Fresh air, idyllic landscape, and you lie together with your partner on a picnic blanket surrounded by trees. Naked, sweaty, but indescribably happy after your uninhibited sex in the forest.
Gotcha!
During your outdoor sex adventures, you should always be careful not to fall under Paragraph 183a. This states that agitation of public nuisance can be punished with a fine or imprisonment of up to one year. And sex in public is one of the possible public nuisances. So as soon as you want to have sex outside of your four walls, you should be careful not to unknowingly bother anyone else with it.
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