Gang bang and group sex, what are the differences, are there any at all?

Have you ever dreamed or fantasized about having gang bang sex? Well, then you are by no means alone in this. However, as we all know, the imagination often differs from reality. If you're new to the scene, you're probably wondering how exactly group sex works or what you need to be aware of. To make your first group sex experience unique, we have compiled some facts and interesting details for you in this article. Of course, you can and should also read on if you are merely interested in the topic or would like to deepen your knowledge in this area. Because one thing is for sure: when practised correctly, the sexual experience with multiple partners is very exciting and can literally be fulfilling.

What is group sex?

Gang bangs, orgies, and group sex — anyone who thinks about this topic either has concrete ideas or is initially overwhelmed. By definition, group sex is a sexual act involving at least three people. There are no upper limits.

But what is an orgy?

At larger and more debauched events, people like to talk about an orgy. Originally, the term comes from ancient Greek and describes secret acts from an ancient cult. Later, in modern times, the meaning of the word changed. An orgy now means one or more acts that deliberately violate morals. In particular, of course, an orgy violates sexual mores — and it is precisely this fact that makes the idea so arousing. Just as a conventional orgy, an orgy with women or an “orgy of men”, i.e., an orgy exclusively among men, is also a conceivable scenario. The latter is more likely within the homosexual community.

Gang bang and surplus of men

In fact, however, there are generally more men than women present during group sex. In these cases, one speaks of male surplus. Many women love to be played with by several men. For example, while the woman is giving a blowjob to one man, another man is penetrating her anally or vaginally — possibly both at the same time. Equally, desirable are additional hands or genitals from additional men who wander over the woman's body and increase the pleasure immeasurably. No surprise: a man's surplus party organized especially for this purpose is the secret fantasy of many women. In precisely such cases, by the way, there is talk of gang bang. Gang bang describes the alternating penetration of one or a few people.

How does group sex work?

Since there are so many types of group sex, all constellations can occur accordingly. There is not always a surplus of men, although this type of play has established itself as the most popular type of group sex. Often the first group sex takes place either in a swingers club or in a private setting. The first valuable experience can be gained in a partner swap between two couples or even in a threesome. Otherwise, basically anything that pleases the participants is good and right. So, you can penetrate, caress or lick for all you're worth without any inhibitions. Although sex with several people can sometimes seem a little uncoordinated, with good planning it is a wonderful composition of the union of several bodies.

What is important to keep in mind during group sex?

If you have a great desire to try group sex, we can understand that. Who doesn't wish to have sex with several parties at the same time? Before the fun starts, however, a few preparations are advisable to make the experience unforgettably beautiful.

Therefore, first of all, think about the combination you want. Would you rather start small or be part of a larger group? Are there any types of play that you don't like, or areas of the body that you don't want anyone to touch? Perhaps you have areas of your body that need special attention? Before the first group sex, it is often advantageous to express wishes and clarify general conditions. Some men, for example, do not want to be satisfied or penetrated by other men, while others find the idea enormously hot. If you belong to the first group, watch out: In the heat of the moment, some touches happen quite incidentally and/or unintentionally. You should be prepared for this if several men are involved.

A great way to get started is simply to see what the others are up to at a gentlemen's surplus party or in a swingers' club. Through a little voyeurism, your idea of what you want and what you crave is solidified. Similarly, observation is a wonderful way to stimulate new ideas. You can definitely let your imagination run wild because, much to the delight of many participants, there is hardly anything that doesn't exist in group sex.

Caution: Another point that should not be neglected is safety. Especially if you don't know the other participants, a condom on each penis is mandatory. After all, you only want to take away positive memories from the experience, and (sex) diseases are definitely not one of them.

Do women like group sex?

There is no clear answer to this question, but we would tend to say that women definitely like group sex. “It's like food, one likes vanilla and the next likes strawberries, it's nobody's business. I like it when as many men as possible make out with me. I don't see a problem there, and I love what I do.” — This is the comment of a lady who is part of group sex full-time. “Of course you have to like it”, she continues.

Group sex as a secret fantasy indeed engages many women. Who knows, maybe even your wife or girlfriend? It is often mistakenly assumed that group sex and gang bangs are a male-only fantasy, but this is not true at all. Just talk to your partner about it and see what happens. You might be pleasantly surprised.

Experience report partner swap

“Even my first group sex was a horny experience”, says Lisa, 26 from Cologne. “Sex with several men was an unlived fantasy of mine for a long time. Then at some point I dared and went to a swingers club. At first, I was a bit shy, but while watching I got really hot”, she continues. “After I got a little bit of courage, I just went in. All the men were very respectful. The presence of the two other women also put me at ease and helped me relax”. That first experience was three years ago now. Together with her partner, she continues to practice group sex in numerous ways. Classifieds, like “Couple seeking couple”, are just one of many ways the couple comes across suitable sex partners. Visiting a swingers club is also one of their hobbies. However, sex with friends has never happened for the couple so far. The couple agrees on this. According to them, experiences should always remain individual and friends have no place in the bedroom.

Fortunately, these examples clearly show that many women not only dream of group sex and gang bangs, but also live out these fantasies. As a general rule, it can be said that many women fantasize about group sex or a gentlemen's excess party, but don't necessarily dare. Time to change that, don't you think?

Where can you have group sex?

Although group sex has been a popular form of play for millennia, it is unfortunately still a taboo subject socially. Finding willing and sexually attractive partners is therefore not always easy. It helps that we live in the 21st century and that digitalization is advancing all the time. Thanks to the wide reach and anonymity on the internet, you can find numerous suitable partners. One disadvantage: until the first life meeting, however, it is not always clear whether they are actually a good match for you. Classifieds ads on the Internet or in print media, such as Couple seeking couple or couple seeking man, can offer another possibility to have gang bang sex or group sex.

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