Why do I have to pay the deposit within 3 days if the date doesn't take place for another 2 months?

The early deposit, even if the date is two months away, serves as a sign of your serious interest and commitment to the planned meeting. By making the deposit, you provide the lady with planning security. It demonstrates that you are committing to the date, which is particularly important for the lady as she needs to manage her time and plan other commitments accordingly. This approach helps to build trust and ensures that both parties take the arrangement seriously.